Wang Ke recalled that he felt that Liu Tao's emotional attitude was worth learning from for a lifetime. Just like Kan Qingzi and Ji Lingchen, you see in the end they still separated)
You Don't know what kind of Aura you belong to. In fact, we can start from self-evaluation to understand ourselves. What kind of Aura will you let him out? This can be seen in the small details that people give you when you talk to them, such as whether they smile or frown habitually when you talk to them, trying to get closer to you, or do you point your toes out as if you're about to walk away, or do you lean toward each other as you communicate? Just holding you or far away from you
I remember the head of the Company I used to work for was a very capable person, but his subordinates often left and the team was unstable. Later, at the company party, I gradually found the clue, no matter whether it was taking a bus or having a meal, or going out for group construction or karaoke, the seats on both sides of his seat were always empty, because no one was willing to sit next to him. Everyone hid far away, and the atmosphere was very awkward, this means that the emotional experience that he usually brings to others is very bad. His aura is so strong that no one wants to approach him. We can observe from these small details first, and slowly understand the type of aura that we have in our lives, whether we will bring this kind of depressed atmosphere to each other in the middle of life
And after that? So I'm going to give you a very useful technique, which is to make a conscious effort to observe your own emotions, and when two people are fighting, you find that the more you talk about it, the angrier you get, or if the more the other party talks, the more angry you get, you can immediately change your mind and think about whether it's me who is giving out negative energy. During an argument, ah, each other's emotional language is ladder-like, that is, you and I say, do not want to climb, and then rise, this time as long as one of the parties can decisive system, can accept the rapid pursuit of negative emotions
The second point is to make a conscious effort to record the course of our arguments. When we are in an emotional state, we don't realize that we are in an emotional state. In fact, we are in an emotional state at this time, so when others say love you calm down a bit, you will think I am very calm ah, I am in a calm to tell you ah, but you really very calm? Not Necessarily
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