The following is from the story published on December 5, 2018 in the public number of Plagiarism Jianghu (Founder: Plagiarism a Cat) (author: Jianghu sister):

All change comes from joining the community.

Despite my repeated confirmations, she still gave such a categorical answer.

She is the fierce reading Camp Iron Xiaoyi.

01

To blood boiling, but also to low-key forward

Not everyone knows what they want from the start, and not everyone knows what they want.

小熠最初的感觉就是如此。

前二十多年，她的一切仿佛被安排好，尽管内心有茫然，但还是享受这种被安排的舒适感的。

However, when she woke up one afternoon and began to look at herself, everything changed. She found herself drifting with the tide, and a strong sense of decadence rose in her heart, which was:

可是，自己到底想要什么呢？

她想起了童年，想起了作文被当范文在班级念的那些日子；想起了沉浸在故事会、意林等杂志里的读书岁月；想起了曾一闪而过的写作梦想。

However, everything seems far away, and the reality is so helpless.

每天，从早晨醒来就开始忙忙碌碌，所经历的工作以及际遇就足以让人精疲力尽。

Every day, the rain, the Sun, the rain, the clouds were enough to remind her of the past, and her emotions were enough to trigger her grief.

In the end,

Living in this kind of fog, she lived in a panic. She could not find peace with herself. Naturally, she could not handle her relationship with her parents, especially her mother, to the point where they were incompatible.

所以，当剽悍江湖社群出现时，自然就成为了她成长的“救命稻草”。

What joining it would bring her, she didn't know.

"I didn't know there was a world like community, I just knew that I kind of enjoyed reading and writing, but I could only appreciate myself.”

Every day there is growth in the community, across the screen we seem to have some kind of“Tacit understanding.”. When it comes to dreams, those that can be imagined, or elusive, there is always someone to encourage, and there is always someone who can really do it. There is always excitement here, and the cat's style seems to encourage:

So, in her foggy days, there was suddenly a "gap", and something flowed into her heart along this gap, that is:

Originally, the writing of the article in addition to“Yi Lin”, “Story will”, there are N ways of writing.

原来，这个世界上的活法除了A、B、C，还有AB、AC……

It turns out that dreams can bloom in addition to being deeply hidden.

原来，人与人之间，真的可以如此“利他”。

Slowly, she began to fit in and gradually became a community operator.

The community facilitates her connection to her inner self as well as to the outside world.

It's not easy for her, given that she describes herself as“Sensitive and self-abased.”.

From an introverted girl who was afraid to express her opinions to a woman who had some sense of self-identity and gradually found her own direction, it was not easy for Xiao Yi to grow out of this“Shell”.

尽管尚且只是在探寻的路上，但一切都足够有了可控感：

“Until I got involved with operations, my circle, my structure, was always very small. Before my thinking, vision are very narrow, do not know a thing can have multiple considerations. But by operating in the community, by putting my operational thinking into my life and work, I've become more thoughtful, more thoughtful, and less impulsive.”

02

真正的利他，托底高情商

Rumi said: Put gratitude like a cloak on your body, it will nourish every corner of your life.

The strongest time Xiaoyi experienced this feeling that Rumi said came from 5.20 this year.

This day, she was confessed, by the group of“Prince Charming” and“Snow White” were confessed.

This is not a grandiose statement, but with a full load of details to be considered ー

That kind of real, subtle little fragment made her feel hot and sweet.

"Doing operation is really a beautiful thing, not only self-ability growth, but also gained a lot of old iron friendship in the effort.”

She began to truly appreciate the power of altruism and a further awareness of responsibility.

Of course, all these changes, thanks to the community of old friends, such as Vice Battalion Commander Niu Niu, chicken old friends, but the biggest help comes from another old friend of the community-captain miser.

She said that miser was very complimentary:

"She doesn't just boast 'I'm great,' she discovers my brilliance through what I do.For example, in meetings, I would occasionally come up with one or two novel ideas, and Mither would praise me at that time for being "creative and brainy", and once was not enough, her own review would also help me and write about where I was creative and where I was good.She did not hesitate to applaud herself, which gave me great confidence and made me slowly become confident from a person with low self-esteem.”

People with high emotional intelligence will praise people, and altruistic people support high emotional intelligence.

All the help she received from miser helped her to understand:

Surrounded by the warmth of miser, she began to know how to arrange their own lives, but also tried to pass this altruism. Her delivery method is, in the community she actively participated in the theme camp activities, for any one of the following task is responsible to the end ー

"Throughout July, I hardly slept before 12 o'clock.”

"Be sure to check the group messages and reply to them before 7 a.m. every morning.”

“When the camp was all over, I slept straight through 12 hours.”

Altruistically, let her become gentle, this tenderness made her reconcile with her family, her relationship with her mother became harmonious, and she even took her mother to Xiamen on a trip alone.

Altruistic, making her considerate, in life she planned birthday surprises for two friends, and the community planned birthday surprises for Miser.

Altruism, so that she could live more in the present moment. In the past, even if she encountered a small problem, she would still be depressed. Now, even if there was an emergency, she still has a positive attitude-“If that's the case, let's do it!”“I can do it!”

While the future is still uncertain, Xiaoyi has used her growth in the tough community to build a vision for herself, one of which is:

All of yesterday is in the past, all of the future is accumulated from the present.

If living in the moment is a kind of insight, then learning to deal with some of the pain of specific life, is a greater ability.

However, because in the community, this ability seems to be effortless, because "just do it" and "do it" will naturally not sit in place and cry.

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