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心宽一寸，路宽一丈；心善一毫，福增一抱。

心宽，世界就小；路宽，财气就大。心善，以德为念；有德，福气自多。

财气就像井下暗流，心宽就是源头活水。福气就像夏日芬芳，心善则是肥沃土壤。

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1. Men have a generous heart and wealth

Due to the many psychological and physical differences between men and women, the social responsibilities and social roles of the two are naturally different.Compared with women's delicate and sensitive interiors, men are more open-minded.

Society for men and women's requirements are different, men struggle in society, need more psychological strength. As the old saying goes, “A man can bend and stretch”, can bend and stretch is a kind of generous heart wide performance. Treat the achievement not arrogant, face the setback not self-abased. Only the heart of magnanimity, regardless of the details of the man can make great achievements.

Cooperation is the key to win-win results. In modern society, one can not make a name for oneself by fighting alone. However, cooperation requires good connections and interpersonal relationships. It is small-minded and has no tolerance for others. Being fussy about everything can only push friends further and further away, and miss opportunities.

得饶人处且饶人，心宽就是在积累自己的财气。财气不是独立存在的，它与能力、人际有着千丝万缕的联系。能力相当时，人际关系越好，财气越旺。

Don't waste your tongue at work for unworthy people and things, take a step back and open the sky, give others opportunities is also give yourself opportunities, forgiving others is to leave a way back for yourself.

In family life, men also need to know how to be tolerant and considerate of family members. In the family life inevitable spoon touches the pot along, mutually concedes a step, relaxes the heart, the family is harmonious, only then can be harmonious and prosperous.

Parents, wives have not easy place, as a man will do parents and wife Communication Bridge, put the heart to relax, bridge play a good role, family life will be good. The family life is good, the big rear area is stable, oneself can better progress.

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2. Women are blessed with kindness

Whether a person is blessed or not depends on whether his heart is good or not. A good heart is blessed by Heaven, but a bad heart is reaped by Heaven.

With kindness in mind, and people good, always do not forget the word benevolence can go their own way, live their own days, so that their lives are better and better.

相较于男性，女性在社会工作中更容易被人挑剔，竞争也更加激烈。要想在工作中站稳脚跟，首先是要有一颗善心。在工作中能帮人的可以适当帮一下，你的一点善心可能就会为你的以后积下福报。

Don't want to be opportunistic at work, give people a trip behind your back, and your small actions will be retributed to you later.As the old saying goes, "Good is rewarded with good, evil is rewarded with evil", and so is life and so at work.

Women occupy a very important position in the family, acting as a supply station and insulation layer for a family.Women are kind-hearted, husband and wife, mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law get along harmoniously, and the family is naturally blessed.If a woman plays tricks on everything in family life and stirs up the family, then the blessings of the family will be broken.

Children are the future of a family and one of the sources of family blessings.Women as mothers have a great influence on children, mothers' kindness often affects children's character and three views, mothers are kind, children naturally learn; If the mother's mind is not right, the child will also go down a crooked path.Once the child goes down a crooked path, the family's blessing will be gone.

The heart is a little more relaxed, the friends are more, the family is warmer, the work is naturally smooth, and the wealth is relatively prosperous.A little kinder, a little more help, less complaints, a little more beautiful life, and a corresponding increase in blessings.

A Man's heart is wide and rich, a woman's heart is good and blessed.