Do you often ask people "what should I do"?

: psychological counselors, especially those who are oriented toward psychoanalysis, do not give their clients easy suggestions or solutions. They only try to help their clients understand what is going on inside their hearts, how Does Your Heart Work? Is there something subliminal you're not seeing?

：到目前为止，我还没有做过一次心理咨询，但在我的心里有一个固有的认知：只要我去找了心理咨询师，一定会给我答案。

After reading today's column, it suddenly dawned on me that this perception is unrealistic. Even if he does break the rules of counseling and give an answer one time, what about the next time? And the next time? What about other problems in your life?

如果有这样的依赖，工作中，学习上，也可能会养成这种依赖，那么这样的人生又如何“认识自己”，“成为自己”呢？

Therefore, we are in the process of learning growth, to learn is the method, tools, specific answers to their own to find. Even a little of this progress belongs to“I”, is to nourish their own very good nutrients.

The concepts of self-fulfilling prophecy (self-fulfilling phrases) and authoritative expectations (the Rosenthal effect) are used to help us loosen our inherent understanding, and then touch our subconscious little by little, to know ourselves and others from all aspects.

印度哲人克里希那穆提说：

意思是说，当问题被觉知到，答案也就慢慢显现了。

：学习的最终目标就是学会发现问题，不仅是我们自己要这样主动的去发现问题，在培养孩子、带领员工时也是同样，授之渔而不是鱼，这是基本准则。