On the weekend, I climbed the mountain with my girlfriends and discussed the education of my children.

And there's a great quote:

我想到我老家的堂弟，初中就辍学，然后20岁出头就结婚生子，老婆年纪也不大。我这堂弟自己现在已经是两个孩子的爸爸了。但我却看不到太多来自一个丈夫和父亲的担当。他老婆生一胎的时候，曾经找我借钱，说老婆在医院，想让我借他300元。我听完之后很气氛。我不是没钱借他，我是气氛老婆在医院了，连300元都拿不出来吗？当然，这也不一定的真实原因。因为在此前他就给诸多亲戚借钱，去还高利贷之类的。所以在家中亲戚借钱帮他还完之后，连他父母都提醒家中亲戚，如果以其他理由借钱不要再借给他。后来还有听说比如和老婆吵架，老婆跑回去娘家，要和他离婚之类的事。

For such a family, I find it difficult to give children a good living environment and learning environment.Moreover, my cousin and younger siblings are not highly educated, and their jobs are not very stable, which is really worrying about the education of their children.Even if they live with children and give birth to 2 children, will they definitely be educated? The answer is no.

We also discuss the issue of parental awareness of education. Many times, some parents in the education of their children, there is no awareness of this, so how to talk about education?

We all talk about teaching by example, but many parents just can't do it. Play their own mobile phone to play, and then teach children not to play, such words pale, counterproductive.

I have a cousin, when he was young, a heart in the study, aunt or he does any housework. As a result, I didn't know how to do laundry in high school. When washing clothes, the gesture is also upturned orchid finger, bashful pinch, slowly wash. You can wash a pair of socks for 10 minutes. There's nothing you can do about it!

In short, born and bred. If you decide to have children, then at least think about how you can be a good parent, even if you can't provide the best for your child materially, but you can provide the best possible environment for him to grow up and learn, so after the children grow up, will also know more filial piety parents.

If there is no such preparation and concept of the couple, then I think it is better to have children later, and so on mature some, more parents of the responsibility, and then raise a child.