Today, see“The road to wealth and freedom,” one of the dining article“Say and do”, it is easier to say, do is the most important.

Respect has always been like this, it is accumulated little by little.

You Say One thing first, and others may not believe you at first. It may feel like you're aiming too high, and it may feel like you're Scheherazade, but with constant effort, you do it, and people will see you differently, those who once looked down on you will feel embarrassed, feel like a scoundrel, and start to pay you some respect in your heart, and if this keeps happening, you may earn it, don't be too hasty. On the other hand, you can only focus on whether you are growing or not. As for the opinions of others, it doesn't matter. Winning respect from others is just a side benefit. You have grown, just say it and do it.

其实赢得自己的尊重才是最重要的，你说要做一件事情，结果没有做，或者没有做好，这个时候你自己是最了解事情的来龙去脉的，你自己清楚自己到底做了什么，如果长期没有做到，你自己开始怀疑自己，不断的说到做到是增加自信，赢得自尊的一个手段。

Since it is the accumulation of“Little by little”, we need to add the dimension of time, just as we planted the seeds of an apple tree today, we can not eat the apples that it produces tomorrow, he needs to sprout and grow. He needs to grow into a big tree first. Even if you see that he has grown a tree full of apples, you have to be patient. Maybe because of the weather, you still can't eat them, keep watering and fertilizing him to provide nutrients, keep pruning some of the extra branches, you have to believe that there is always time to eat the apple.