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People are afraid of taking the wrong path, and their hearts are afraid of giving the wrong person

2022-09-16 07:13:32


 有人含窗苦读数十载,位高权重后经不住利诱,前程尽毁; 有人朋友交心数十年,却因一己之私出卖友情,报憾终生; 有人奋斗打拼多年,暮然回首却发现淡漠了亲情,回头再难…


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雨果在《悲惨世界》里写道:“尽可能少犯错误,这是人的准则;不犯错误,那是天使的梦想。”
We can eat the wrong meal, Wrong Card, say the wrong words, and even choose the wrong professional, but there are two things, must not be wrong: one is the wrong way, the other is love the wrong person.
走错路的人,如同陷入重重迷雾的包围之中,看不清方向,找不到归途;
给错心的人,犹如跌入万劫不复的深渊,一场错爱,满身伤痕,有人赔上了名声,有人赔上了性命。
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The direction is wrong, and the harder you try, the harder it gets
Some people say: life is like a chain, a gear stuck wrong, the back can no longer be connected.
不管怎样用力蹬,只能是原地空踩,无论怎样用力摇,也只能是白白手酸。
Sometimes, the direction is wrong, go farther, the more difficult to turn back.
作者剑朋讲过自己亲身经历的一件事。
Many years ago, he was doing a social survey in the county seat. One afternoon, he passed by a small reservoir and found a little boy struggling in the reservoir. Several naked children were crying on the shore.
He undressed as he ran and swam as fast as he could to the child.
小孩一把抓住剑朋的胳膊死死不放,而剑朋游泳技术本就不怎么样,又急又慌中连着呛了好几口水。
It took him a long time to stabilize God, and he grabbed the child with one hand and paddled desperately with the other hand before swimming ashore with the child who fell into the water.The whole body seemed to be scattered, and it could not move for half a day.
After the panic was settled for a while, he found that the place where the child had originally fallen into the water was only a few meters away from the shore, and in the panic, he pulled him to swim to the opposite bank tens of meters away.
It turned out that if you were in the wrong direction, you might lose your life.
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虽然我们不会时常遇到这样的突发状况,但生活中关于方向的选择,比比皆是。
有人含窗苦读数十载,位高权重后经不住利诱,前程尽毁;
有人朋友交心数十年,却因一己之私出卖友情,报憾终生;
Some people have struggled and worked hard for many years, but when they look back, they find that they have indifferent to family affection, and it is difficult to turn back...
蹒跚学步起,就被叮嘱小心脚下的路。但凡行差踏错半步,不是掉水坑就是摔泥泞里。
Growing up, I found out that this was the truth.
Not every path can be turned back, and not every choice has the opportunity to regret it.Instead of rushing to the road, it is better to see the direction clearly before taking a step, and then pause a little in the middle of the road to confirm the target.
A person's life is a journey of the process, slowly walk, do not make a mistake, will eventually reach the distance to want to go.
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Love the wrong person, life tragedy
茨威格在他最具代表性的小说《一个陌生女人的来信》中,讲述了一个女人为了一个浪子付出一生的故事。
From the age of 13, the heroine has been fascinated by the writer Mr. R and is infatuated to the point of no return.
她知道他沉湎于玩乐,爱寻花问柳,每一个夜晚都带着不同的女人回家,其中有别人的太太,也有还在上学的小姑娘。可她偏偏不管不顾,把自己毫无保留地奉献给了他。
毫不意外的是,R先生不会记得她。
When she was pregnant with his child, she took on the responsibility of raising the child alone.For the sake of children, she even prostituted herself.
尽管爱她的男人很多,却丝毫不能打动她的心。她一直在等待着R先生的召唤,哪怕只是一小时,那也是她最大的梦想。
Every year, Mr. R's birthday, is her holiday, she always go out early to buy a bunch of white roses, send to Mr. R.
But he never remembered her, and even though he had met her many times, he had not recognized her.
直至孩子死亡,他才知道自己在世上原来还有过一个儿子,原来曾有一个女人如此爱过他。
第一次读到这个故事时,我被女主的深情震憾。然而随着年龄渐长才明白,这样的爱情看似感人,实则荒谬透顶。
她的一生,全部毁在了自己的一厢情愿中,毁在了自欺欺人里。
再温柔再漂亮再体贴再懂事,爱错了人,一切就都毫无意义。
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人们总说爱情需要经营,却容易忽略掉一个前提,那要看你爱的对象是谁。
正确的人,你的好好经营能换来两人的相濡以沫;错误的人,再多的经营和维系都毫无用处,爱到最后,你会发现一切都那么无力。
这世界诱惑太多,真正靠得住的不是爱情本身,而是你所爱之人的品性。
人内心的力量,不像我们想像的那样强大,承受不了一次又一次的错付。
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清醒和理智,是人生最好的保护色
The German writer Fontana said: "Happiness has its duality: on the one hand, it operates when the mind is blessed, and on the other hand, it is the most practical aspect, that is, it is sober-minded and does not do stupid things."”
Tang Ying, a talented daughter of the Republic of China, was quite outstanding in terms of family situation and xiangxiang, and was called "Southern Tang And Northern Land" with Lu Xiaoman.Lu Xiaoman is willful and unruly, playing a good hand of cards; And Tang Ying, although in the midst of glitz and noise, has always been the most calm and rational of all the celebrities.
The reason is that she knows what kind of life she wants, can bear the entanglement of love and obsession in her heart, live to old age, beautiful to old, and live a smooth life to old age.
Other women's families are superior, so they let themselves visit the theater garden and make up cards every day, but Tang Ying has never given up her high requirements for herself, dance, English, landscape painting, the most popular is that she is outstanding in the theater industry, and even created a precedent for singing Peking Opera in English.
The average woman sees her favorite clothes and can't wait to buy them, Tang Ying doesn't.She always silently wrote down those amazing clothing styles, added a lot of her own creativity to them, went home and asked her tailors to do it, and became the "Queen of Explosive Styles" at that time with the "Tang Ying Model".
With her own aesthetic ability and business acumen, Tang Ying and others created the most famous "Yunsheng" clothing store in Shanghai at that time, the most popular style in Europe, and within 10 days, Yunsheng Company would produce the same model.
In addition to the pursuit of interest and career, in love, in the face of inappropriate feelings, she is also very decisive.
当年孙中山的秘书杨杏佛爱慕她,虽有过些许动心,因为家庭的原因,她不愿拿自己的名声来当儿戏,所以她不涉险。
The handsome and golden "national husband" Song Ziwen interacted with her, but the father was firmly opposed to his daughter marrying someone who was engaged in politics.After thinking about it again, she obeyed her father's wishes and broke up with Song Ziwen.
凡事计之深远,才能更多地免去无谓的伤痛。
她不会为了爱情枉顾人伦,懂得保持几分四根清静,也懂得爱惜自己,没给人留下任何话柄。
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英国诗人乔治有过这样一句感叹:“品性高贵的人就该有所节制,遇事能权衡轻重,从不忘记自己的身份。”
择路、择人,都需要太多的清醒和理智。
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Time cool thin but also quiet, with the right heart to choose the right way to live up to the years.
擦亮眼睛,看清前路,头脑的清灵会让你不至迷失在难缠的漩涡中。
走错了路,记得回头;给错了心,把它们收回。真心很贵,不能浪费。
选好你要走的路,把温柔留给对的人。
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